July 23, 2012 7:24 AM PDT
How about some old helmets, drill holes in them and put flowers in.
As far as theme vs. traditional, when my wife and I got remarried we went all out with a medevil theme wedding, swords, suits of armor, costumes and had all guests come dressed in costume as well. Way better, way more fun and definately more memorable then our original traditional church wedding.
Just my 2 cents.
Rich