Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to
meet at a nice restaurant for dinner. I was shopping with my friends
all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit
late, but he made no comment on it. Conversation wasn't flowing, so I
suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but
he didn't say much. I asked him what was wrong; He said, 'Nothing.' I
asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't
upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On
the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept
driving. I can't explain his behavior I don't know why he didn't say,
'I love you, too.' When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him
completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat
there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and
absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed.
About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. But I still felt that he was
distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep - I
cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are
with someone else. My life is a disaster.
His Diary:
Men are women are so different. Communication is a key. OK, I said that so it's ok for me to be distance when I've got something on my mind? Right? lol
OMG !!!!!! That is a man for you ! That was a good story Paula. I know the feeling. Sometimes, my fiance is off in la la land too ! If we could only READ their minds. So much easier. : )
HAHAHAHAHA.........you're right. It probably would be too scary !! To be honest, I don't want to know what they are thinking all the time. Rather boring, I'm sure.
hahahahaha