LOL I totally hear ya Jdub! I think that Wild Hogs and SOA got a lot of "groups" started! Those are great shows, but they are "shows". Like many things in life, they always seem cooler on TV! There's a big difference between spending an hour watching some guy with a full patch back tattoo go blow up a rival club's gun warehouse, and actually LIVING it! (And I'm sure it's just make up and fake explosions anyway LOL) Very entertaining, but I don't think they intended it to be a recruiting add.
I'm a little bit more realistic... I'll admit that hearing or seeing the club roll through, really fires up the old itch. But I like my warm bed and peace and quite! But I am willing to bet that I'm not the only one who would dig a little group of riding budies who fully understand the seperation between having fun a few hours on a few weekends, and the full meal deal!
And I hear ya on the bar-hopping thing! A good cold beer on occassion is awesome, but with some it seems to be the only driving force! I am also not into anything that is so damn top heavy and rules/procedures/traditions heavy that it end up being all about that stuff. I have no deep seeded desire to be bossed around or follow someone's stick-man leadership. ITS ALL ABOUT THE RIDE with me!