June 23, 2010 12:56 PM PDT
Inga,
I don't know you but I do want to tell you how sad I am for you, and your childrens loss. I lost my husband & 3 year old son 4 years ago ("lost"...I hate that term, I didn't lose them, they died).. DEFCON was spot on when he said that things like this can define you or defeat you...Stay Strong!...I'm new to this site but I can see from what others have posted that you have many caring friends here.